Most relationships don't break from one big betrayal. They erode from a thousand unasked questions. The Compass asks them for you: a short check every second week, a little deeper each month, a full reading every quarter, and once a year, a look at the road ahead.
Both of you answer separately on one device, then see your reading together. Your answers never leave this device. Save a reading only if you choose to; it stays in this browser, deletable any time.
Your one-time baseline: twelve open conversations, no scores, had once and revisited only when life shifts. Separate from the checks above.
One calendar event, every second week. The Compass tells you which check is due when you open it.
The check-in is free for everyone, always. The deeper checks are part of The Missing System: your reader code is printed inside the book, in the Compass chapter. Enter it once on this device and everything stays unlocked.
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Read it aloud, both of you. Every question that follows works only because this was agreed first.
"We agree to be open with each other, to raise things directly rather than carry them silently, and to face whatever comes as one team. And we agree that in these conversations, honesty is never punished."
First names only. They stay on this page.
Your baseline, before the rhythm starts. These twelve conversations are had once, one per sitting, over your first weeks. Read through them now, pick the first one for tonight, and come back to the rest at your own pace. If you feel broadly aligned, you can skip ahead and return whenever a check points you here.
These are not today's check-in questions. Your first check-in, with its own short scored questions, starts right after this screen.
These are not part of any check. They are twelve open conversations you have once, one per sitting, and come back to only when life shifts under you. No scores, no comparing. Just the two of you, ten quiet minutes at a time.
Open with the pact, aloud, both of you:
"We agree to be open with each other, to raise things directly rather than carry them silently, and to face whatever comes as one team. And we agree that in these conversations, honesty is never punished."
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